The implicit presupposition (or, rather, injunction)
of the ideology of
marriage is that, precisely,
there should be no love in it. The Pascalian
formula of marriage
is therefore not ‘You don’t
love your partner? then marry
him or her,
go through the ritual of shared life, and love
will emerge by itself!’, but, on the contrary
‘Are you too much in love with somebody?
Then
get married, ritualize your love relationship,
so as to cure your passionate
attachment,
and replace it with boring routine — and if
you can’t resist passion’s temptation, there
are always extramarital affairs…'
Slavoj Zizek; How to read
Lacan; pp121-2
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